You are Lysa Arryn (Beaver)!
“Marriage changes people.”
Even after marriage you found a way to stay true to your Tully roots of “Family, Duty, Honor”. That said, you did help start a war that led to the death of thousands, including your older sister and uncle, but no one’s perfect. And if anyone might question your objectivity, leadership, or parenting—you were totally in on questionable breastfeeding before it was a thing—remind them that you willingly freed Tyrion Lannister after his victorious trial, preserved the lives of the Vale soldiers during the War of Five Kings, and…your son Robin? He’s still alive.