You are Sansa Stark (Elephant)!
“I’m a slow learner, it’s true. But I learn.”
Socially aware and possessed with a proclivity to withstand pain as opposed to give it, you needed both of those traits to survive your time as future Queen of the Andals and fiancé to Joffrey, otherwise known as the unluckiest person in Westeros. It says a lot about the nature of an Elephant that despite your various tragedies, you’re still basically the same optimistic, friendly person, albeit with a toughness strengthened by experience and a skepticism sharpened by Littlefinger.